And, let me ask you, is it homophobic not to want to date or have sex with someone of the same sex? No, because you're not attracted to them. So, why is it racist that one is not physically attracted by a person of a certain race? What if no one of that race attracts you? It doesn't mean you don't respect that person, or you think of them lesser because of their race (unless you do, and then yeah, that's racism).