For women, it could be any height, with nice curvy hips and a plump rump. Boobs don't matter much, although perky ones with a low V-neck shirt are always fun to look at. Like with guys, the personality has to be there, especially intelligence. I stopped dating women for a while because most the ones who reciprocated my interest wound up being the gossipy, clingy, whiny types that I couldn't have a meaningful connection with. I remained open to relations with women, but never seemed to click with any before I met my husband.