Physically I like to look at men who are broad shouldered, vaguely brown, and possess muscular butts; being demisexual, I don't really experience sexual attraction until a close relationship is formed, but this is what I find aesthetically pleasing. Mentally I like intellect, an inquisitive nature, and a love of learning in any form. Socially I like someone who is personable and has a great laugh, preferably loud. A disregard for the politically correct is a bonus, as are tattoos, and nerdiness. Everything else is negotiable.